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I am a 60 yr. old Married Straight Male from Armidale, NSW - New England Region, , Australia.
Looking to meet someone and see where it goes. I believe in caring for other people. I recently read a book entitled "does the bible condone polygamy" by J A Farmer. I found it on Amazon. This book has changed my thinking and has made me realize that we all need to belong and be loved. Have a look at the book and if you agree , I would love to hear from you . I don't like pubs and clubs and have always preferred the company of women over men. What I am seeking is a lady that is kind, caring and has the kind of personality that tends to care for others. The problem is as we don't frequent clubs and pubs etc, we just don't get to meet people.
As I think to much personal info is placed on the net I will send a picture and answer any questions you have when you contact me. No I am not a religious nut, but yes I am a Christian. If you get a chance have a look at the book it will tell you a lot about how I think as I totally agree with its logic.
I understand that most simply turn off when they hear the term polygamy. So please allow me to explain. There are three types of polygamy 1) polygyny, where a man has more than one wife simultaneously. 2) polyandry, when a woman has more than one husband 3) consecutive polygamy also known as "serial monogamy", the practice of divorce and remarriage (commonly practiced in western society). The problem with the last one is that a wife is abandoned when another is taken, thus hearts are broken and lives destroyed. The sad part is that the bible speaks against a man practicing "serial monogamy" at Matthew 19:9 and yet this form of polygamy is widely practiced throughout Christendom. However there is no sanction against polygyny. The fact is in the world we live in, a woman can leave such a relationship if she so wishes thus many of the fears held regarding the treatment of women in such a relationship are unfounded. Why should a wife be abandoned by her man just because she has become older, or his heart has also become attached to another? Loyalty says that if he wants to be with another woman then any previous wife should still be loved and cared for, not discarded like an old piece of clothing. Look at it this way if a man will leave his last wife to take another he will probably to the same thing to the new wife sooner or latter, but if he is loyal to his first wife then he will be loyal to you as well.
As any good relationship is based on trust and respect and as these things can not happen overnight, I would like to seek friendship and if more is meant to be then it will happen but to try and make something happen without spending time and getting to know each other is a recipe for disaster. If on the other hand such a thing does not happen then we can all benefit from close friends that we can trust, thus either way its a win win situation. Life is good and even better when spent with others who appreciate its wonder and beauty this is especially true when we spend it with close friends who see it the same way.
Sex is not love! love comes from the heart and once born cannot be denied. To my mind, to form a close friendship and not be prepared to make room for the heart, is just to play with the emotions and feelings of others. However to try and force love without first finding a close friendship is to simply deceive ourselves.
I appreciate that we are an older couple and many would seek friendship with a younger single man but the fact is, a young man is all about himself but a more experienced man seeks the interest of those he cares for , its not just about him
I don't believe in playing with peoples lives. If I am of interest to you I would love to hear from you and see if we can form a friendship and then see what life brings.
If you would like to get to know us then please list me as a favorite and send me a message.
Thanks for spending this time with me.
Relationship I'm Looking For
Dating, Romance, Friendship
Older man seeking fun and romance