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A Lesson On How to Write Online Dating Profile Headlines

By Joshua Pompey

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The first thing a woman will see when she approaches the written portion of your online dating profile is the headline.  Like the beginning of a well-written novel, a great online dating profile headline will generate interest, raise curiosity, and set up the reader up for a great story.

On the other hand, a poorly written online dating profile headline will send a woman to the next profile in the blink of an eye.  Unfortunately, millions of men unintentionally write profile headlines that instantly kill attraction without even realizing it.  I am going to help you avoid these critical mistakes.

In this article I am going to discuss:

  1. The most common mistakes men make in their profile headlines.
  2. The types of profile headlines you should avoid writing.
  3. How to create online dating profile headlines that women will respond to.
  4. A very special promotion at the end of this article.

The Most Common Mistakes Men Make With Their Online Dating Profile Headlines

1.  Unintentionally appearing needy or desperate.

2.  Appearing to be the cliche nice guy.  I.E., Boring, Un-Interesting

3.  Using poorly phrased language that instantly lowers attraction levels.

4.  Hinting at anything sexual or politically incorrect.

Let’s take a closer look at a common mistake many men make in their online dating profile headline:

“Nice guy looking for a nice girl.”  While the wording may change slightly from headline to headline, I witness countless variations of this headline every single time I log onto a dating site.  This headline may seem innocent on the surface, but what does it really reveal about the person?

First off, this headline is boldly declaring that he is a nice guy right from the start.  I call this, “nice-guy disease” in the online world.

Its good to be a nice guy.  But let the nice sides of your personality come out naturally as you get to know a woman.  Boldly declaring you are a nice guy the second women view you will cause women to see you as a pushover who is boring and lacks excitement.   This may not be true at all, but perception is everything.  Women naturally respond to alpha males, not men who just want to show women how nice they are.

Secondly, the headline shows poor language choice by declaring that he is the one “looking.”  Women are attracted to men who are in high demand with other women.   The word “looking,” unintentionally creates the image of a lonely man who is desperately searching for the right girl.   Attractive males don’t look for women. Women look for them.

How can we write online dating profile headlines that actually attract women instead?

Let’s replace the profile headline above with headlines that will attract women instead…

Old headline:  Nice guy, looking for a nice girl…

New and improved headline:  Are you ready for the adventure…

New and improved headline:  Are you more than just a pretty face…

New and improved headline:  Hold on tight…

New and improved headline:  Read at your own risk, heart rate may increase…

See the difference?  The new examples create a chase, display high levels of confidence, show standards, display zero indication of being desperate, and serve as a nice intro for the story that is about to unfold.

In the world of online dating, every word and picture you choose will have a direct impact on how you are perceived.  The more you can get every aspect of your online dating profile perfect, the more overall success you will find.  And it all starts with the online dating profile headline.

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